If I had you over for a coffee date, I'd probably invite you around 10AM...if that worked for you... And if all the parenting stars aligned, you'd arrive {and softly knock on the front door} right after Caris went down for her morning nap. If you came this week it'd be too warm to sit outside by 10AM. I'd mentally tell myself, "Listen to Kent when he makes his argument for a house with a pool!" I'd offer you coffee, tea or water. If I'm on top of my game, I'd have {store bought} sweet tea too and maybe some homemade bread- pumpkin? banana? zucchini? I'd triple check the coffee mug to make sure my lame & lazy dishwasher did its job- before handing you your drink. I would drink water, if I didn't know you that well. I would drink hot tea, slowly slurping it, if I knew you. You would probably ask me about Florida, as most people kindly do. Are you settling in? Have you gotten involved? How does Kent like his job? Surface level ...